BDSM Gag
Discover our wide range of ball gags.
Ideal to put a little something new in your sex life and stimulate your fetish fantasies as well as your libido. The gag is an emblematic toy!
There are different types, the dildo gags, the harness gags, those in the shape of bone, mouth, or even nipple. By experimenting with different styles of gags, you can discover what you really like. Make sure you buy the ones that will suit you best, and of course, have fun!
There are many sextoys BDSM on the market, but if you haven't yet dipped your toe into the world of BDSM, gags might not be on your radar yet.
What is a ball gag?
As their name implies, gags are used to keep your partner's mouth open during sensual role-playing. Otherwise known as ball gags, are usually made of plastic, rubber or silicone, and are attached to a harness that wraps around the back of the head to hold the gag in place. Ball gags are often used in dominant/submissive role-playing games because the person wearing the gag loses the ability to speak. It is one of the key elements of physical restraint that is seen as much for its sign of submission as the BDSM necklace or the chastity cage. And for those who wear it, it sends a clear signal about their own fetish desires.
Wearing ball gags is part of the role-play of submission and your exchange of power.
Your mouth also plays a key role in many sexual acts, so giving up the ability to behave in a reciprocal way changes the dynamics, and can reinforce other sensations that are concentrated elsewhere. From the moment your partner places the gag in your mouth, you submit to his control, where he deprives you of your ability to speak and make a clear, definite sound.
Over time, as your mouth is abnormally stretched out and forced to open because of the ball, you drool in a way that adds to the knot of humiliation, and your position of powerlessness reinforces a master's dominance.
Ball gags are also popular with fetishists.
Some people are sexually aroused by the gags and the sound of gagged people, especially during sexual acts and the sight of their uncontrolled drooling. Gagging can also be considered an act of punishment and humiliation.
The need to be controlled and punished by one's dominant partner adds to the BDSM scene of discipline and domination. For others, the wearing of such a physical object blocking their mouth may trigger pain arousal, which is part of their masochistic behaviour. In addition to establishing submission, wearing a ball gag also enhances your sexual experience. "For the wearer, a ball gag increases mental as well as physical arousal by enhancing their role-playing as a sub or slave. We suggest you take a look at our wide range of BDSM harnesses to add a touch of kinky sensuality to your sessions.
Not being able to talk during sex increases their anxiety level due to their impotence and therefore increases general sexual arousal. If none of this is working for you, here's another reason to try using a gag: it can lead to a stronger orgasm.
Some larger, non-breathable gags also force the wearer to inhale through the nose, which can limit oxygen, leading to a more intense orgasm.
Stay safe with ball gags
Obviously, before you start putting something in your partner's mouth that limits his or her ability to talk or even breathe through the mouth, you need to discuss it. The first step is to get her to accept the idea of trying a gagball by talking about her expectations, so that you are both on the same page.
You also need to be clear about the signals, as she will not be able to tell you if things are getting too intense or not. When speech is restricted, it is advisable to agree on a gesture or a series of gestures that clearly express the intention of the submissive before plunging into a kind of bondage game.
For example, tapping three times on the back of the hand may mean: "It's too intense, please release", while tapping twice may mean: "The gag is too tight and must be released or removed".
Although starting the conversation may seem a little awkward at first, the principles of BDSM practice are that it should always be "safe, healthy and consensual", so you should never experiment with someone who is not willing to accept safe words and ground rules in advance anyway. If you are trying a gag for the first time, we suggest that you stick to the time limit. For those who are new to ball gag bondage, we recommend starting with a 10 to 20 minute delay,
This helps the submissive (or the person being gagged) to become familiar with the feeling of being gagged. Do not spoil the experience by trying too much too soon, as this may lead to jaw pain, overstimulation, panic or anxiety. Also, if you or your partner is sniffing, it's probably not the best time to try a toy that restricts your airflow. Do not gag a person who has a cold, sinus congestion, runny nose or upset stomach, or leave a gagged person unattended, and remember to check in with your partner from time to time. This is the key to keeping your partner safe
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